Jun 13, 2019
Today we’re talking about money. Stop! Don’t run away! Hear us out. With blended families, there’s bound to be talk about money. Whether it’s a savings account for the kids, child support, a prenuptial agreement with a new spouse, or splitting things with an ex – money conversations must be had.
And for many of us, they’re uncomfortable. We’re taught that talking about money is rude or should be kept private, and this often leads us to avoid the conversations altogether. That’s when things get sticky. What if your new spouse didn’t know what child support you paid, despite the fact that your finances are now consolidated? How about that savings account you and your ex started for your child when they were born?
Today, Mike and I will talk about what it takes to have a successful, transparent, and trusting relationship where you can talk about everything. Always. We’ll bring up some thoughts on equality between siblings and how love for a new step-child naturally grows. Tune in to hear our thoughts on true commitment and what really matters at the end of the day.
00:45 – 07:00 - Introducing today’s topic: Money
07:00 – 11:00 - Transparency, trust, and taking responsibility
11:00 – 17:00 - Equality among blended family kids and prenuptial agreements
17:00 – 20:00 - Allowing love to grow and having realistic expectations
20:00 – 25:30 - The family budget and committing to it all with your partner
25:30 – 30:00 - What you really need at the end of the day