May 30, 2019
Today’s episode is a crash course on the top assumptions people tend to make about their new blended family. It’s important to manage these unrealistic assumptions because the truth is, things probably won’t be fine and dandy from the get-go! And that’s ok.
Nothing in life comes easy. The relationship between you and your new step-child – or between new siblings – may not be exactly how you dreamed it would be before you moved in. Don’t stress. That’s normal. As with any relationship, it takes time to build trust and connection.
Today, Mike and I will talk about the process of gaining trust and respect within your new family dynamic. Listen in to hear some tips to get on the same page as your spouse, and learn how communication can get you that much closer to the blended family experience you first had in mind.
01:00 – 05:00 - Introducing today’s topic: Managing assumptions and expectations
05:00 – 09:30 - Expecting your new family and step-family to get along perfectly
09:30 – 13:00 - On earning trust and respect
13:00 – 20:00 - On step-kid behavior, empathy, and taking responsibility
20:00 – 29:00 - On the relationship between spouses and active communication
29:00 – 34:00 – Some final takeaways